Dear Carolyn: I've become involved with someone who's in a long- term relationship with someone else. They've been long-distance for about a year. I really like her, more than anyone I've met in a long time, but I feel very conflicted. She is as well - she has said that she feels like she's having an affair, due to the length of her time with him.I worry that I'm being destructive in her life and her boyfriend's by not ending it. But I miss her terribly when we're apart, and I think we have something pretty special. Should I break it off? - Washington
End Conscience-Twitching Relationship Now
Dear reader: Today. You don't need me for this.Just in case your brain hasn't been blunt enough with your heart: You're "conflicte...